"You should be over it by now"

I was raped last year by someone I trusted with my life.

After almost a year, we spoke again and decided to be on semi-decent terms since we had to see each other at college. 

He expected us to go back to being close and talking and hanging out all the time. That wasn't happening. 

We had a phone conversation once where I told him I had no trust regarding him. He got upset and said that I was wrong for not trusting him. 

After arguing for a long time, he told me that since it has almost been over a year, "You should be over it by now." 

That I should be over the fact that he raped me.

I will never be over my rape. It will always affect me. How dare he say that.