"What's wrong with you?"

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for four years of my young adult life. 

One particularly rough day at the beginning of the relationship, my boyfriend said something that cut very deep, bringing me to tears. 

As I sat on the couch crying, he stood in the doorway and stared me down, completely infuriated. 

He said, "What's wrong with you?! This is over if you don't stop crying."