"Despite being fat, you dress very nicely."
/I used to go to church with my grandma every week. One day when I was fourteen, I decided to dress up for church more than I normally did. I had recently gotten a new dress that I thought looked really nice, and I was excited to wear it.
My grandmother's church friend came up to me and complimented my dress, which I was elated about. Then she said, "Despite being fat, you dress very nicely. I imagine it wouldn't be easy finding dresses in your size, so it's good you found one."
She probably thought she was being nice and giving me a great compliment, but I was devastated. I ran into the bathroom and cried my eyes out.
I had always been self conscious from bullies in school, but I think her comment was the worst.