"Your shoes are very pink."
/Growing up, my family didn't have much money. My parents always tried the best they could to provide for me.
In 8th grade, my mom treated me to a new pair of pink lace-up work-style boots from Kmart. I was so excited about them and confident that I could rock them, until I wore them to school.
After a day of awkward stares, I was walking to the bus stop when one of the popular kids told me, "Your shoes are very pink."
I excitedly replied, "Thank you!" and I was feeling suddenly confident again.
He chimed backed in as I was walking away, "I never said I liked them." And I was immediately shot down.
I went home and cried that night, and never wore the shoes again. The shoes my mother worked so hard to buy.
It's funny how words can hurt a child so deeply.