"The family whore"

About a month ago I went out to dinner with my mom, brother, grandparents and my grandma's best friend and her husband. I was feeling pretty confident, so I wore a crop top that I thought was cute. When I came out in it, my mom didn't say a thing.

We got to the restaurant and as soon as we sat down my grandpa looked at my mom and said, "That's a little bit inappropriate for your daughter to be wearing, don't you think? I mean we wouldn't want anyone to classify her as the family whore, now would we?"

Instead of defending me, my grandma looked over and said, "A girl her size shouldn't wear such revealing clothes anyway."

I'm 5'6 and 130lbs, but my grandma was never over 100lbs until she was in her 50s, so I'm not up to what she sees as thin.

They didn't mean to hurt me, but I haven't forgotten it.

Every time I pick out something to wear, I think about what they said.