"You have too many problems."
/When I was about 12, my mom and I were driving to a school event, and I told her I was scared and nervous.
I will never forget her turning around and saying, "You have too many problems. You're always complaining or crying. It would have been easier to have had another boy than you."
At that time I had bad depression and anxiety that she did not know about, and that still makes me upset to this day.